Topping From The Bottom refers to a situation where a person in a submissive role tries to take control or direct the dominant partner in a dominant/submissive relationship. This term is often used in the context of BDSM.
Examples:
1. In BDSM play, when a submissive partner starts instructing the dominant on what to do or how to act during a scene, they are said to be topping from the bottom. For instance, if a submissive says, “I want you to use the paddle harder and faster,” they are attempting to control the dominant’s actions.
2. Imagine a dominant partner sets a punishment for their submissive, such as writing lines as a disciplinary measure. However, if the submissive starts negotiating the punishment or suggests alternative consequences, they are engaging in topping from the bottom. For instance, they might say, “Instead of writing lines, can we try a different punishment like a restriction on my privileges?”
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